Friday, April 24, 2009

Long Live Memory...!!!


Memory shows its hurricane power now, yes that same memory which didn't even remember an equation for class tests. It strikes back again and again as a donkey who resists as stronger as we push. While standing on a concrete slab which is just out side my home, it reminded an another slab, a bigger one, uplifted and balanced on large blocks of solid rocks. Can I sit on that concrete slab once more with my friends? If I get a chance, that slab will not allow me to sit alone because about the slab my identity might be along with my gang and probably it will not judge any one of us individually! That is the intimacy of our gang to that slab. Boundary half wall of the cashew plantation is the another statue of our friendship. Adjusting each others to get under the shadow of that lean tree, sharing food items at lunch time, waiting others to complete the food...all are becoming a shadow of memories! Is that lean tree still there? I hope it will be there alive! Hot summer of our absence might affect it badly and I wish may the presence of a new gang let blossom it. "Long live lean tree, long live, wait for me, I will come one day to see you- to feel me- to feel my friends- to feel those good old days- to feel the soul of life. I may be old, hopes you will recognize me but I am not sure of my friends. I may be alone but I will try to my extreme to be with them to see you once again...". Will there an another opportunity to climb on the rocks of that cashew plantation? Will there anyone of them with me to make our usual challenge "who is faster to climb on the tree"? Should I sit on the lower branches lonely, if I get another opportunity to touch those once again? Can I find our names scratched on those branches then? I wish if everything will look same but realize that the faces I am going to find there will not be the same. Our college, street, tea stall, everything will look same, I hope, but the eyes which will follow me may not the same. Those glance will have a strange look on me, and I will say to them with another glance of disappointment and proud "my dear friend, I spend my life's blossom here with my sweet friends. I may be a stranger for you but not for these buildings, trees, street and these sands..".

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Be a friend.....



Having a deep relationship with someone seems to be the 'worst state' of life when we forced to ajdust ourselves as a victim of time or responsibilities which we have to take in count as we live in a soceity! Time and these unwritten social laws, even though they are with respect to our social commitment and nobody will force one to do so, can't be denied, and so sometimes the biggest assets of our life -friendship- may have to throw out without noticing or noticing helplessly. What else the mater, we finds a satisfaction and feels secured, loved and cared when we are with our friends and we don't mind the future's 'must come seperation'. Is this 'must come seperation' the central axis of every relationship? Answer seems to be 'yes' and we can't resist it but just obay the time!
 
A normal person dont seeks for friends but they comes to attract each other, by some common factors which are hidden inside them as their tastes and moods or even by having the same living conditions and if there is an exposure to mingle them each othre, it is sure, there is a big chance of they will be friends, even atleast in that common factor. It is very easy to describe a person as our friend, and we may not sure are we, we uses this in our daily life many times as we introduse a person to another, and like that. We may share time, thought and even money each other with that person, just sharing something like this doesn't taken to be counted as figouring out the true friendship, a state of relationship in which the so called 'friends' share the care and love each other over those invalid facts- yes it is sure time, thought and money are so invalid in the mater of true friendship. It doesn't mater how long you talk to each other and how much money you have to give him or get from. It doesn't mater how you shared your thoughts each other because friendship has no brain, only the heart. You might be the happiest man in this world if you can point out a true friendship of such kind, and imagin, what kind of world this would be if all of us can! Then may be the 'wars' for bocoming the happiest man and if so our earth will be the happiest globe in the universe! Come on, be a friend of everyone you see, live the 'happiest man'...